Monday, October 11, 2010

Relationships

 I just read my friend's blog, and he/she talked about how people fall in and out of relationships so easily and i have to agree based on the past events and people or friends that i have seen going through this. Its really tough being in a relationship, a person would most of the time never have things in common and the give and take concept rarely works long term, it usually just makes people break up even faster sometimes as giving and taking when accumulated for a long time just ends up in anger and bitterness in the long term.

 I recently have also been thinking about my own and past events that i have gone through and really saw a clearer picture of how my relationships have gone. Mostly is my fault but generally i could see that most of the reasons why my relationships would fall out is because we just never had the same aim or same path which made things grow further part after a while as we got deeper and further away from the path where the split happens
 Sometimes i still find it so complexed that i dont even dare to give people advices anymore because sometimes everybody is just different in their own way and have their own thinking and i really have been studying the different possibilities and let me tell u, what i have seen could only be 2% its that different and most of the ones that i encountered have always been different and hardly any similarities in them. All i can say is that create ur own solutions based on past experience or really get to know ur partner because it would never solve anything if u use peoples experience for ur own. Just be URSELF and really know each other and sometimes u have to go the extra mile to do the unthinkable for a ONCE IN A WHILE surprise lolzz.

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